asexualizing:

• withholding information about a person’s loved one, when you KNOW and actually are the only one left who KNOWS what this loved one means to him, so you can use this information against him
• ignoring what your partner, who has been robbed of voice and agency, wants for herself and for the people whom she cares for and were also robbed of voice and agency, because you think you know best
• this after you’ve painted yourself as a victim of a person who has been painted as a monster for his love, because you’ve gotten close enough for him to possibly love you
• and tried to paint him as a monster to the only person who eventually understood him, because he understood her

Silver retire bitch