*hugs* believe me, Anon, I know the feeling. first it was “oh, you’re still young, it’ll sort itself out in a few years,” and then it was, “oh it’s not a problem, don’t worry,” and then it was, “holy shit, who knew, looks like you’re pre-diabetic and may or may not have cancer (thankfully it wasn’t)”. The good news is that in my case the damage was in fact reversible but yeah – I definitely could have been saved a lot of trouble, panic, and stress if someone had just a. understood what PCOS is and b. actually tested for it and gotten me on some kind of treatment plan a lot earlier.