Oh, yeah I’ve never totally understood that either. If he is upset, then he would forgive James, because that’s who he is. I still am not quite sure why people believe he’d forgive/be okay with Peter or random strangers, but James is somehow unforgivable :s

I mean – in all fairness, I don’t think I’ve seen any fic where he flat out can’t live with what James has done, but I just don’t know that I think he’d think there was much to forgive in regards to the war itself. At most he might be rather appalled by some of the things James did after Miranda died but before he allied with the Maroons but given that James is appalled at them himself I don’t think he’d find them unforgivable.